Most of this content comes from a course on “Mindful Communication” taught by Oren Jay Safer. Much of it will be in his book, Say What You Mean, which will be released in December. To come from curiosity and care, to understand, means to be able to listen. It feels good to be listened to!…
Most of this content comes from a course on “Mindful Communication” taught by Oren Jay Safer. Much of it will be in his book, Say What You Mean, which will be released in December. Intention is the motivation or inner quality of heart behind our words and actions. Where we’re coming from in a dialogue…
This the third sermon in our Back to the Basics series called “Speaking the Truth in Love.” Chris and Ann, two members of our community, role played conflictual situations throughout this sermon. Ephesians 4 (selections) So, before we dive into this topic of “not making room for the devil,” I want to do a quick…
Our “Back to the Basics” series this year is “Speaking the Truth in Love.” During our Education Hours, we are focussing on building skill and capacity for having difficult conversations. This first Education Hour delves into the skill of “Leading with Presence.” I heard of some difficulties people were having with the content of this…
This is the first sermon in our Back to the Basics series on “Speaking the Truth in Love.” Ephesian 4 (selections) We’ve all been there. You’re sitting at the dinner table with your mother, son, uncle, partner, friend, co-worker… let’s just settle for partner in this example. (This example is adapted from the book Caring…
This information was presented at our annual retreat on Saturday morning. It is from Oren Jay Safer’s online course “Mindful Communication” and, mostly, David Augsburger’s book, Caring Enough to Confront: How to Transform Conflict with Compassion and Grace. When the going gets tough, we tend to default to habitual conflict styles based on a “fight,…
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