Author: Sheri Hostetler

  • Education Hour: Strengthening Healthy Intentions and Attention

    Most of this content comes from a course on “Mindful Communication” taught by Oren Jay Safer. Much of it will be in his book, Say What You Mean, which will be released in December. Intention is the motivation or inner quality of heart behind our words and actions. Where we’re coming from in a dialogue…

  • Education Hour: Leading with Presence

    Our “Back to the Basics” series this year is “Speaking the Truth in Love.” During our Education Hours, we are focussing on building skill and capacity for having difficult conversations. This first Education Hour delves into the skill of “Leading with Presence.” I heard of some difficulties people were having with the content of this…

  • Sermon: The Case for Conflict

    This is the first sermon in our Back to the Basics series on “Speaking the Truth in Love.” Ephesian 4 (selections) We’ve all been there. You’re sitting at the dinner table with your mother, son, uncle, partner, friend, co-worker… let’s just settle for partner in this example. (This example is adapted from the book Caring…

  • Presentation: Conflict Styles

    This information was presented at our annual retreat on Saturday morning. It is from Oren Jay Safer’s online course “Mindful Communication” and, mostly, David Augsburger’s book, Caring Enough to Confront: How to Transform Conflict with Compassion and Grace. When the going gets tough, we tend to default to habitual conflict styles based on a “fight,…

  • Sermon: Who is Your Other?

    I Kings 8: 1, 6, 10-11, 22-30, 41-43 Just as there are fundamental physical laws of the universe — like “for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction” — there are fundamental political laws. Like: when a people feel threatened — whether that’s because they’re struggling economically or there’s lots of social change…

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